Oct 10, 2014

So sad but the memories wouldn't disappear



Today I saw a shocking news about Luhan' s suing against SM Entertainment regarding contact effect nonexistence agenda and it's quite sad to hear so.


This is the second time after Kris.


Much of sad feeling arouse in my mind but there is no way and I will just have to cross my fingers for him.


Working as a job would be certainly hard and I understand that.


Although that job may be related with one's own dream,

hard stuff is always hard stuff.

I have heard some news before that Luhan got sick after so many hours of working to prepare concert and digest so many schedules given to him.


He got sleep disturbing disorder, depression and his physical strength got lowered and that's why he couldn't show up at some concert schedules.


And if that was too hard for him, there may be no way but to take some actions.


Personally, I think personal right and happiness are more important than any other things.


Entire whole can not just restrict individual's own domain.


It could be that Luhan had personal desire to act alone in entertainment industry and get more benefits from it.


Although Luhan's action will have some influences on fans and members,

I guess his choice should be respected and recognized.

As a small fan who just see EXO members through computer screen or something like that, there are not many things I can say about them in this situation. That's because I don't know any specific nor detailed truth among them.


It doesn't mean that I just love them superficially, but what I mean is that there is no right for me to evaluate or grade their actions.


All of EXO members including Luhan and also Kris gave many good memories to me and that's just enough for me.


Yet, all things I can do to Luhan is to wish his happiness of future.


However, there are just two things I want him and also Kris to keep on.


First, live a happy life. Personal happiness is the most important thing and basic human right ever. Whether they quit entertainment job or keep their job with another company or something else, their rights to pursue a happy life is their own priority.


Second, keep good relations with other remaining members. Friendship is one of the most important things human should pursue during their lifetimes. Although they split up to pursue their own life, I wish they never forget the beautiful memories they have had with other members.


For sure, there would be bad memories of hard times. That's inevitable because every life has its own hardships. They may have fought, had different opinions which would have made them to collide with.


However, I'm sure that there are also many good and charming memories with each other which may be certainly more powerful and meaningful to those negative counterparts.


Even though they may have some conflicts or bad emotions towards each other for now, I wish they could reconcile and keep going their valuable relationships.


I want them to contact regularly, meet each other for some occasions and wish each other's good luck.


And I hope in the future, they get together and reminisce the beautiful memories of their young years.


Anyway, there may be farewell but also reunion.


I beg all the fans, please don't blame harshly on Luhan or other members but just wait and see.


One thing I worry is whether there are some structural problems inside SM Entertainment or entire entertainment system that made two of EXO members to feel harshness and leave consecutively.


If there are major problems or irrationalities, it means that the remaining members are just withstanding their hardships which are not due to their faults.


If there really exist some serious problems inside the industry, I wish those could be identified, examined and the people in charge of them to let rational solutions to come out.


Yet, nothing has been identified for now so those are just my abstract concerns.


All I expect is that there would be no discord or disharmony between the members.




















Pictures from: Official Facebook Page of EXO-M

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